The other day at the SG meetup, I met up with my old teammates, and some teased, "Look at all the Kols here, is there anyone you haven't cursed at yet so I can take you to curse at them too?" I thought to myself, am I that toxic? Have I fought with so many people? I don't even know anyone. Rewind my memory a bit, and it's just me cursing at every exchange and project, but I haven't really cursed at anyone outside of the clone toxic group.

But back then I was free + deposited, now I'm still depositing but I'm busy. Those who have time to go online all day to toxic and harass others can only be immature kids or people with nothing to do. If someone has knowledge in their head and pride & honor in their heart, they won't want to bother anyone anymore, so wasting time on those people is really not worth it.

Some Kol friends said that there were times they were afraid to read comments on my posts because there were many toxic individuals who made filthy and malicious remarks. In fact, even though you were educated to engage with people, it doesn't mean you have to respond to everyone. They are filled with anger and hate because they feel inferior, which is regrettable but also pitiable. The best thing to do is to ignore them because they are just a small minority; no one will judge you just because you don't engage with toxic people. I have just realized this too; it really isn’t worth worrying about.

If you have knowledge, experience, opinions, and a passion for writing, just write, don't worry too much about other things. Becoming a creator doesn't have to be about proving yourself or marking anything, think of it as an open diary written for yourself. On social media, those who are bitter are the ones who lose. Do it your way 😗

A few days of continuous drinking, I'm really tired now.

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